of the Week
word or phrase to add to your army.
All animals have a favorite time of day or night when they are most active and alert.
For many, including my cats, Mr. Darcy and Mr. Bingley, the times are matutinal (dawn, or sunrise) and vespertine (evening or sunset). When animals are most active at those times of day, they are described as crepuscular (creh-puss-kew-lur).
We've all heard of nocturnal animals, meaning those who are most active during the night. Crepuscular animals want to hunt, play, and disturb the sleep of their owners during those times when it is dim, not light and not dark.
Some humans are also crepuscular, coming very much alive and accomplishing more during the evening and early mornings, but not me. No way! I am nocturnal. So, it is a slight conflict when the furry boys want to play predator when I want to catch up on my sleep in the early morning. This is what they look like:
"Hey, lady, is it time to play, yet?"
Bill Walsh, head coach for the San Francisco 49ers during the 1980s, was a sagacious man. This quote by him is a very eloquent way of explaining flying by the seat of your pants.
There are times when flying by the seat of your pants is the only thing you can do, but generally, there is an opportunity to stop and make a plan, which is a sagacious thing to do.
If you find yourself being chased by a lion through the jungle, it might be time to fly by the seat of your pants. But, in almost all other situations, it is advisable to take a few moments, collect yourself, and figure out a way to proceed.
What do you think?
If someone is considered sagacious (suh-gay-shuss), they are thought to be wise. The expression 'wise old owl' could also be said, 'sagacious old owl.'
Many consider that becoming sagacious happens with age; that older means wiser, but I have known some mighty sagacious youngsters in my time. I have learned a lot from children who have an innate (natural) sagacity (suh-gah-si-tee) about them. It is marvelous to behold (see or witness).
Sagacious is something we should all try to be, but if we don't have it yet, should look for a friend who is. It is a better alternative than 'flying by the seat of our pants*.'
*See next week for the explanation to this phrase!
Today's word is one that I made up. I think it is quite OK and very creative to make up your own words if all other words fail to express what is in your heart and mind.
Deliberaffabilizen (de-lih-bur-aff-uh-bil-ih-zin) is a noun and a state of being made up of three different words that work together to mean what I am feeling and what I hope you will also feel.
Deliber(ate)-to intentionally do or feel something, this sometimes requires real work on your part.
Affabili(ty)-to be affable, or possess affability, is to be pleasant and kind.
Zen-Zen is the state of being in which you are focused, aware, in the moment, and not worried about things you cannot change.
So, then, deliberaffabilizen would be choosing to understand that terrible things happen all around you and sometimes the news is so full of that terrible that you want to crawl into bed and pull the covers up, but instead, you live your life, moment by moment, loving every good thing, not worried to the point of dysfunction, and remaining kind and thoughtful to those around you, and you do all of this very deliberately and thoughtfully, focusing on the things and people you love.
Get it? Got it? Good!
I am Becky Lyn Rickman. I am a writer because I love words almost as much as I love the people in my life. I want to fill the world with magnificent words and then jump in and splash around in them. I live with Mr. Bingley and Mr. Darcy, my cats, but the only words they really love are "meat" and "gravy."